I like to call this the "Anchor" syndrome. Those inactive who don't investigate the Org to find out the truth about it are just keeping the whole idea as thier ace in the hole. It is the hope that is an "anchor" for the soul. Even though they are taking time off for "bad behaviour", they still hold to the idea that all will be forgiven when they decide to return. If there is some sort of truth out there, there is still a reason for living. When you remove any possibility of hope, there is no point for even a life of dissapation. Some have such low self esteem that they cannot act on the impossible expectations of the truth. Once they find they can live life without it they become comfortable. Then its always, "maybe one day" blah blah. They attend the memorial to remind themselves of the obligation and the possibility of redemption in the future, but have no interest in doing anything till life craps on them and they see the benefit of signing on again.
For what its worth.
W.Once